Yesterday was Bridget’s 3rd birthday. She spent the daylight hours indulging in cookies, cat-stalking and sunshine in the kind of present-moment-savoring paradise that most adults wish they still had the freedom to enjoy.
She was playing on the porch swing when her big sister Brontë put one of Douglas’s dog toys in her mouth, barking and crawling around on the ground.
Oh gross, I chuckled. Brontë, put the dog toy down!
She did. We later went inside to start the birthday celebrations, the girls forgetting all about the dog toy incident… until a startling discovery the very next morning:
That’s right.
A photo of Brontë with a dog toy in her mouth splashed across the front page of the The Sacramento Bee today, visible from every newspaper stand in town.
I’ll admit to being a little bit mortified.
And it’s not that I don’t believe most little kids have had far worse in their mouths at some point (kids chew on everything); it’s that random snapshots of our lives can create unbalanced impressions. I didn’t want people thinking I routinely let my kids chew on dog toys that have been sitting outside in the dirt because that’s not usually how we spend our time.
This idea didn’t bother Brontë at all, however. She was too busy being thrilled by her joke making the local news. She grabbed a paper and spent the next couple of hours running up to strangers to point out her featured photo. “It’s SO FUNNY,” she kept telling them. “They put it IN THE PAPER!”
Now, you may be wondering how this all came about…
Months ago, I wrote a blog post called Americans Are Too Damn Clean, inspired by parents who get rid of pets during pregnancies or use hand sanitizer before handling infants from what I consider to be good intentions gone awry, encouraged by our national tendency toward germ paranoia.
In it, I bring up scientific studies showing how kids who grow up around pets actually have fewer allergies, lower rates of asthma and eczema, and better gut ecosystems. No need to get rid of your pets.
Apparently, the Health Reporter for The Sacramento Bee came across my article and was intrigued. She called me for an interview and to set up an appointment to take photos of my girls being natural kids in a laid-back environment around a mom who would let them get dirty.
And Brontë, being the natural performer that she is, supplied the piece de resistance by chewing on a dog toy for the cameras, which ended up being a teaser on the front page. Oh, and she also grabbed the camera from the cameraman when he wasn’t looking and snapped some photos of me. Luckily, he was a really nice guy who has twin 8-year-old girls of his own, so he completely understood.
Fortunately, the article didn’t portray me as a filthy lunatic, just a mom who wasn’t convinced that disinfecting everything was the best idea. It was on the first page of the section section and the online version is here: Are Your Kids Too Clean? Microbiome Research Reveals Dangers of Killing Germs.
The only real bummer is how the reporter promised to mention Bubbles and Beebots in the article, which would’ve been great press in a nationally-known newspaper… especially since I live just outside of Sacramento, talk about the area from time to time, and since some of the studies mentioned in the article came straight out of my blog post. There’s a link included on the online version, yet the actual newspaper only referred to me as a parenting blogger.
Dang. Well, maybe the editor cut it. You never know.
At any rate, I think it’s pretty cool that Bridget’s birthday will be forever remembered as the day before she appeared in the local paper. She seems to think it’s pretty cool too.
That’s brilliant! Us laid back mums should celebrate our dirty homes. And happy birthday to Bridget too!
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Thank you! It will be fun to remind her about being photographed for the paper on her birthday, years from now.
Hear hear for dirty houses (*clinks glasses*). I don’t know how anyone with small children can manage more than basic tidiness anyway, without hyper-vigilance and far too much stress 🙂
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Oh, my gosh that is such a bummer that they didn’t include a link to your blog. But awesome that you got in the news. I so agree with you that kids don’t need to be constantly clean (adults either). Remember on the Office when Dwight was okay with people sneezing on him because it built up his immunity? I so believe that. Not the constant sneezing in the mouth, but being exposed to germs build up your immunity. Science right?
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It is! Seems like a little thing that would’ve meant a lot to me, but what can you do?
Ha, I didn’t remember that scene with Dwight but it sounds like something he’d do. Practical beet farmer. There’s no escaping germs and dirt.
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It was actually at the Office. He had Jim and Pam sneezing on him.
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That sounds about right. I’m not that big a fan of germs, but I wasn’t super-avoidant. The last office I worked at had giant hand sanitizer pumps in every cubicle group and in front of the elevators. Felt ridiculous to me.
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Yeah, that sounds a little over the top to me. I’m not Mr. Sanitizer all the time and I only missed 4 days in 15 years. I think it is more about the work ethic than it is the health of people to be honest.
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Wow, that’s a solid attendance record. Yeah, I think they want to keep employees healthy so they’ll work more but doctors are starting to tell us to cool with with the HS because we’re building superbugs
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Now that would be really awesome to see what a superbug would look like. Or act like.
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Only if it had a cool uniform 🙂
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That’s true. And if it had a good enough uniform, it could be on a sports team jersey or performing at an arena.
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No qustoien this is the place to get this info, thanks y’all.
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Thanks for reading 🙂
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That’s pretty awesome.
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Thanks! 🙂
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That’s amazing! Congrats on making the news and happy birthday to the wee one. By the way, I completely agree with you on the germ-phobia that so many parents exhibit.
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Thank you! She did have a nice birthday. 🙂
Ah, it’s a losing battle, this anti-germ stance. We should tackle the really nasty ones, of course, but I can’t imagine keeping kids from pets and dirt. Takes all the fun away!
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I know, right??
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Great article love! I’ve noticed that our kids have hardly gotten sick this year after a 4 month cold last year. Resilient little Vikings.
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Yes! Knock on wood… I always feel a little paranoid after boasting like that 🙂
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It is WAY cool!
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Thanks! 🙂
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Totally agree. A bit of soil eating and worm handling should be encouraged. Same applies to allowing children to take risks. Mollycoddling leads to declines all round.
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Agreed! I also let my kids stumble a little and I think that’s how we learn limits. There’s a difference between small risks and something truly dangerous!
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True. Have you ever seen the coverage of a baby being placed in an area that has a sheer drop (under supervised conditions of course)? They seem to have an instinctive knowledge of when to stop!
This is not the clip I was thinking of, but it shows the idea.https://youtu.be/DrzmvI6iMrE
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That’s very interesting! The experiments also suggested that babies partly develop skills like depth perception from crawling and experience. It makes me wonder whether kids who are too controlled and protected don’t get enough chance to fully develop these skills.
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It is fascinating to think what we have all forgotten, or unlearnt!
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I hate my life but at least this makes it beraable.
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Ah, sorry you’re hating life and the moment. Hope you feel better 🙂
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